I'm not sure how this works...but I do believe that God gave me to my husband but he also made him for ME. I used to beg God to get me out of this. I was angry with God for putting me with someone who wasn't at all like me. He is calm, steady, simple, quiet and non emotional. I am passionate, crazy, emotional, a risk taker, talkative and a people person and very complicated. He doest care much about business or have a passion for it. He doesn't open up well with people and I share my testimony upon shaking hands sometimes ;) but what I used to CURSE God for, now I get on my knees and thank him for. I don't know if I would be able to do anything I do without his nature. He makes me laugh like no one can and he takes few things in life seriously. We are literally the opposite people in all ways and that used to make me sad and feel like I was missing out. ..now I feel like its what makes all this work. I used to depend on him for wholeness and all joy and completeness. And God made me stay and have him become all those things instead of my husband and now it works. Now its our biggest weapon. Now it's our greatest joy.